We are seeing the light snow on the ground disappear because of temps in the 30s and even 40 degrees a few days ago. That is so unusual for our area of the country where others south of us had much snow dumped on them but we had a minimal amount. I’m looking forward to my sister and her family coming up from the Cities to see us for Thanksgiving tomorrow. Them rather than us making the hours of interstate and they will do it all in one day, turn around to go back the same day after being stuffed with turkey and dressing and all the other good stuff.
My composition students will be sparse in all my classes tomorrow, all five of the classes I teach on Mondays and Wednesdays. That’s fine, I will bring pumpkin cookies, bread and one pie for the football and basketball players who miss having home cooked meals. They are surviving on the school’s cafeteria food. I asked some of my volleyball and soccer player girls what they planned to do for Thanksgiving. One girl has 3-4 places to go to: her mother’s, then her father’s side of the family (I’m assuming they are divorced), then her grandparents and then her stepparent’s side of the family. Complicated. Another talked about going home and inevitably being in the kitchen the whole time helping to prepare the meal. THEE meal! That’s what Thanksgiving has become. When I said good bye at the end of each class on Monday I reminded my students about being thankful. I didn’t say to Whom or for what. I just said to remember what they are thankful for. Most were too eager to get going to even respond to that. Others gave me good wishes for Thanksgiving with the idea that I wouldn’t see them until next week AFTER Thanksgiving break.
Yes, it is a very big holiday for us as Americans. For some it is all about the food and then there is always “Black Friday” the next day. I will avoid shopping at all costs on that day because I hate to shop on a regular day. Give me the malls that are empty, or the stores that don’t have much business during the middle of the week, in the middle of the day. I’m fine with that and perhaps I will go shopping tomorrow, the day before Thanksgiving just to get some presents for people.
Today as my husband and I drove into town it was remarkable to see the horizon and the landscape, it was very fresh, clean and close looking. There are days like that where the distant trees and farmsteads miles away have a clarity that is refreshing. However, there is currently sadness in our nation, especially in Missouri. I don’t even want to get into it but there is violence and there is injustice. Unfortunately, for the people to create more violence and steal from the shopkeepers in the vicinity, that is sending a very WRONG message. Perhaps it is really telling what the ilk of these people are who perpetuate the continued misunderstandings. Lawlessness and the ignoring of rule of law seems to be escalating in our country. We have freedoms and they have been abused, maybe quickly slipping away from us.
Well, looking at the purity of winter helps even though things are dormant or dead. It is like a covering that heals the hurt. The shadow of winter is here, it is done approaching, it is all around us in the north. I am thankful for many things…even snow and cold.